tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8622045412938847718.post6700076424815218190..comments2023-04-25T15:58:47.443-07:00Comments on Finding Jane Doe: Nothingphilhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04754781281360440378noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8622045412938847718.post-74517661495451073582008-04-24T08:05:00.000-07:002008-04-24T08:05:00.000-07:00Aw Phil.This really hurts to hear that he is not r...Aw Phil.<BR/><BR/>This really hurts to hear that he is not responding to your letter. <BR/><BR/>I can relate somewhat, having gone through the motions and sent out hundreds of letters to men who could be my father. There were a couple that I was almost positive could be the right man, and it took me forever to hear back from them. To say the waiting is agonizing is the understatement of the century.<BR/><BR/>I just hope you hear something, and soon. <BR/><BR/>We're all here in your corner.<BR/><BR/>(((hugs)))<BR/>xx irisheyesMarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13473842842514660709noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8622045412938847718.post-39225198935418535612008-04-18T22:20:00.000-07:002008-04-18T22:20:00.000-07:00Thanks, Andie...My nmom gave me a helpful suggesti...Thanks, Andie...<BR/><BR/>My nmom gave me a helpful suggestion for a next letter. (One with direct questions about my history and medical info...) So he can answer that and then tell me to get lost if he wants. If nothing else, it might get him moving. I think I'm going to write another one and hope for the best. <BR/><BR/>I can't believe how screwed-up this is making me feel.<BR/><BR/>But it helps to know I have friends like you around. Thanks again.philhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04754781281360440378noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8622045412938847718.post-49843943549762854632008-04-16T21:40:00.000-07:002008-04-16T21:40:00.000-07:00Oh shit Phil. I know that feeling so well. The c...Oh shit Phil. I know that feeling so well. The crappy thing is the more you wait, the more your self talk will take over. No matter his eventual response, it's going to pale in comparison to your self talk. <BR/><BR/>The not knowing is a killer. I know it's scary as hell, but you may want to think about pushing forward with another letter or call.<BR/><BR/>You have nothing to lose babe. And you know you'll still be YOU and you'll still have us.Andie D.https://www.blogger.com/profile/05853859265687206607noreply@blogger.com