Though I'm not Christian, and haven't been for decades, I always want to be with family at this time of the year.
And I feel lucky to have so many families: my biological family, my adoptive family, my family by marriage, my friends from college, my online adoptee friends... I won't pretend there is never any angst because of having so many families, nor that there is no drama within those families.
Yet, at this time of the year, I try to focus on all the good that comes from having so many wonderful people in my life. Even when they disappoint, I still love them and want to be with them.
I hope, whatever you believe, whatever your traditions, you get to be with people you love this time of the year.